Notes for Planning High School Reunions
- Start Reunion Meetings ONE year prior to reunion event.
- First reunion meeting – delegate duties to committee members at first meeting to keep them coming back to more meetings. First meeting will be the largest turnout of classmates.
- Keep duplicates of everything – keep with 2 classmates. (Shit happens!)
- It is IMPOSSIBLE to make everyone happy! Save yourself A LOT of grief by ONLY getting the opinions of the classmates that are part of your committee. Hopefully there are enough committee members to VOTE so the stress is not all on one person – group effort. Opening the door for all classmates to voice their opinion was a waste of time. Most do not respond. The ones that do typically have issues. Consider the source and move on. Don’t set yourself up for added grief you will have enough as it is. Pick your battles. (Opinions are like assholes, we all have one!) EXCUSES for not attending reunion – you will hear them all. If they only realized how much easier it would make it on the planning committee if they just said the truth…that they have NO desire to go! They take the beating around the bush approach and say the ticket price is too high, they don’t like the location, someone looked at them the wrong way, my panties are in a bunch, etc. The classmates that want to attend will attend no matter what! Do NOT take anything personal! You will be asking yourself, “why am I doing this crap for all these people when the majority don’t care?” What matters the most are the classmates that do care – focus on them! Since classmates don’t commit….there is a lot of guessing going on. We have 346 classmates in our class and a good estimate for us for attendance is approximately 100 classmates. (If you are over or under by 25 that is close enough since most places are accommodating to high school reunion events – they get it.) You will drive yourself crazy by trying to guess your turn out. Classmates don’t understand how important it is when you need to pick location size and ticket price in advance. (The more classmates that you have actually attend will help lower the ticket price for all. It is simple math – example if DJ cost $500.00, 500.00 divided by 50 classmates = 10.00 per ticket price per person/ 100 classmates = $5.00 per ticket price per person. This is JUST for the DJ, this doesn’t include all the other stuff needed for a reunion that you need to add to ticket price. There is something special about reunions – when you see people have the chance to reconnect and totally enjoy themselves – PRICELESS!!!!
Don’t give up! Good luck SUCKERS!
- Reunion Check List:
- Location of Event – Crab Deck ***Make sure date for Reunion is available at location of choice.
- NO hall fee
- Can accommodate smaller and larger groups
- Conveniently located – Hotels, bars, restaurants, boat docking
- They set up/decorate and cleanup/take down
- If we forget something they will have our back
- Crab Deck allows us to bring our own jello shooters
- Classmates don’t commit - Crab Deck is understanding and will wing it at the last minute. (Seating and Food)
- Date and Time of Event - Which month is the best month to have a reunion? - JUNE
- Has to be when Crab Deck is open (May - October)
- SEPTEMBER bad month (too many other events going on)
- Are there school activities/Holiday/events ? College, homecoming, Narrows Boat Races, Nascar, etc
- Month that is big for vacations – August!
- Bookkeeper (Serious job – need someone on the ball and trustworthy!)
- UPDATE Classmates: addresses & email addresses (BIG pain in the butt – HUGE task)
- It would probably be best to assign this to a few committee members that are willing and give them sections of the alphabet to locate and update.
- Few months prior to event personally reach out to EACH classmate via email, facebook, phone, etc. Making it personal makes a huge difference. You may be the one and only contact for that person to feel comfortable enough to come to reunion. (Think about how uncomfortable it must be to step foot in a room where you haven’t seen or stayed in contact with other classmates in years.)
- Website/Emails - (ALWAYS keep website) What you see on website is just a bonus. All that it does behind the scenes is MUCH needed and worth its weight in gold! Stores classmates information. Handles all emails and stores them. RSVP, polls, stores photos, accepts credit cards, keeps track of payments, etc. – PRICELESS!
- Emails should be sent on a monthly basis - constantly in their face but don’t overdo it because then they will stop reading/ignoring.
- You will get NO feedback from classmates – Do NOT take it personally – they are reading.
- Ticket Sale deadlines. Have ONE deadline. No more crying wolf. After deadline increase ticket price $10.00 per ticket (at the minimum!!!). You have to have a deadline for seating and quantity of food, AND jello shooters needed!!! LOL
- Lots of procrastinators – do not take it personal – it’s just the way it is!
- RSVP - I feel is a waste of time – joke – nothing says more that their coming than their payment
f. Budget – (Bookkeeper)
g. Ticket Price – always try to keep as cheap as possible to accommodate ALL.
- Appetizers (Selection depends on ticket sales.)
- Non-alcoholic drinks (iced tea, soda, coffee)
- Beer, Booze, Jello Shooters
- Venue space for 5 hours (all private from the restaurant section)
- Decorations, table linens and tableware
- Set up and breakdown/clean up
- All taxes
- All gratuities for food servers
- Name tags
- Mailed invitations and stamps
- Reunion website
h. Invitations - (Use all methods – then you know you did all you can do!)
- Mail Postcard (We should do this no matter what!) – Postcard (least expensive) – upload mailing list and use their mailing service to address and stamp (cost nothing extra for that service) 4x6 is the best size! 5x7 cost more money in postage to mail than 4x6 size.
- Some people not on the internet.
- We had/have a lot of bad email addresses
i. Decorations - should always have some touch of our school colors.
- Food Selection - NEVER have a buffet dinner – Appetizers ONLY (Keep ticket price as low as possible)
- Booze Selection - ALWAYS make sure we have keg of beer, booze and jello shooters
- Jello Shooters – (minimum 500 jello shooters per 70 people)
- Questions for Trivia
- Games for entertainment -(10-15 minute segments - too long gets boring.) Karaoke! Trivia - More games – DJ AL Wysong
- Prizes for games – gag gifts are fun
- Gift/keepsake – (ask classmates that own a business – they may have a product to offer)
- Raffle – another way of raising much needed money
- Name tags – Should be name they like to be called (ie Donald -> Don)
- Create tags when classmates arrive at event
- High School Memorabilia – should always be at Reunion
- Hotel (block rooms) - **Check with hotels before setting date to see if not too booked already.
- Photographer -
- Always make sure photography fee includes copy of photos on disk.
- Memorial Book of deceased classmates – keep updated
- Donations – make announcement to all classmates (this offers classmates to be a part of it too)
- Donations to help with reunion expenses
- Donations to pay for classmates that can’t afford
- Donations for prizes/keepsake (it doesn’t have to be money; it could be a product that they sell. Example microfiber cloths with school logo.)